Sex In the Big City

If men would knew how we interpret each and every gesture, how small, even the lint from the lapel, and then we draw a strategy of our common life, they would tear their hair out. Or at least they would pick the bald, whistling the damage.

I take a close look to a man who drinks milk and how he acts in the airport. I hear drop at what kind of engine he is interested and I check in which position he sleeps at night. I sift what kind of relationship has with his mother and in which day he wears his black socks.  Then draw conclusions determine how much he loves me and establish a future behavior, which concerns us both.

But that’s not all and not just me. It’s hard to keep such a great responsibility on my shoulders, so I prefer to share the burden.  If men would knok that they are study  by a carefully selected group would freak out.  Every woman enjoys a passionate panel, which meets frequently and is composed of best friends.  They give their opinion and analyze in turn the men,  in each man’s behavior.Then give the verdict.  During this, the man of any of us drink a quiet beer maybe is looking at some free porn videos, thinking that everything is under control.

The most interesting signs I consider that are the ones from th e beginning of the relationship. When I don’t know exactly on what quicksand quiet I stay. I keep my ears well open because I hate the idea of being in a thin line. If they would knew that after they hang their phone or send their text message, we split the th read not in 4 but in 74, to see whether or not we will be together and how we’ll go, if they knew …

I am aware that a man doesn’t  knows what strategies to apply. But that does not stop me trying to give to Bobby, giving me power and some hidden but powerful feelings and desires, which he has no clue . In most cases, do not even ask him to sit on it.   I met with my board and I understood everything.

   A “us” used in conversation with a friend is clear that is thinking about a couple and done, we are together.  A “wait I must talk with her” it’s clear we’ll have a commitment.  But the most important step when he brought to me the second guitar, my girlfriend says. That means something very serious and is a sign applies to all relationships.

 A second guitar cover different objects  from man to man, but symbolism is a clear (we think). It can be a winter bike, some books because he has to learn for an exam that is not quite imminent, or his  favorite pajamas or 7 DVDs all with soul concerts that he had long been heard.

The first guitar, my friend clarified,  brought it a little while ago, because he can not live without it. But it was only the second guitar was a sign to be thinking very seriously about our relationship. A second guitar is that object without which he could live for a long time.   But the very fact that there is life without it and still took it, shows me he wants to spend as much time together.

Moving it to me, shows to me our fragile love (yet) bind us.  Any girlfriend would say the same.  If you ask the man, he probably takes second guitar after him just like that without meaning.  Because he felt like playing that night and it was not enough his first one or because he has work tomorrow with it and he wasn’t in the mood to go to pick it up. But to a woman-this tinny explanation does not convince her. 

Bring the second guitar is safe love. It’s just a matter of time before the man will realize what is happening: caught in the entangling. She already knows and is informed and all her friends. The man should better behave as expected.